In our effort to achieve financial freedom, there are two enemies which, if we are not vigilant against, will always cause us to fail. It might not be what you think. Many people are worried about a catastrophic illness, or losing their jobs. But there are two other enemies that we must face and overcome each and every day if we wish to secure our freedom. Here is the first:
Comfort.
Gasp...I shudder just to hear the word, because I know it is mercilessly clawing away at my freedom! Comfort is never satisfied. There's always a bigger car, a bigger chair, a bigger television out there begging to coddle us. There's always a nicer hotel room, a beach with whiter sand, and a fancier restaurant calling us to relax longer and more luxuriously while we are served. Comfort can even keep us from getting out of bed in the morning to make it out to earn our living.
Comfort, in and of itself, is not a bad thing. In fact, without any comfort, we would be unable to rest and sleep, and we would quickly die.We would freeze in the cold and melt in the heat. So comfort is essential for survival. But where do we draw the line? If we go back to what science has proven through hedonistic adaptation, after our basic needs are met, any more or less comfort has no bearing on our personal happiness. True, there will always be moments of bliss in situations where our comfort exceeds our normal levels. But for whatever level of comfort we are accustomed to, it is that much easier to enter that blissful state. A man who sleeps on a bale of hay in a barn would find bliss on a futon inside a warm house. But a man who has all the wealth he could ever dream of must search the world and spend extravagant amounts of money to achieve that same feeling as the other man. In reality, it is a beautiful thing that in every country on our planet, the poorest man can be just as happy as the richest man.
This brings up our next foe, one that has a stranglehold on our society:
Convenience.
A quick trip to 7-Eleven is all one needs to see the price of convenience. And if you look around, people are more than happy to pay twice what they would in the grocery store across the street. But every trip to the restaurant, every phone call to the handyman, every time we drop off our cars to be fixed, our freedom is being drained for the price of convenience. We absolutely have to have cell phones on us at all times in case we need to make or receive a call. And even that's not enough because we also must have the internet available as well! We need laptops and tablets so that we can conveniently experience media in the comfort of our couch.
Convenience keeps us from learning things on our own. It keeps us from making mistakes and learning to do things the hard way on our own.
In reality, if we had no desire for comfort or convenience, financial freedom could easily be attained in under 10 years. One could easily live on $7,000/yr and have all of their needs met. In reality, if you were extreme enough, you could live for free by the sweat of your own brow. At the other end of the spectrum, we have those that are so focused on their careers and earning money that they are able to outsource everything and put all of their effort into learning how to increase their income. This gives them the ability to hire personal trainers, even have people clean and cook for them. Both of these examples are extremes that most of us will not relate to and could not see ourselves doing.
But which method is better for us? Why not work our tails off so that we can live the ultimate life of comfort and convenience? I obviously am partial to the first scenario. The most obvious reason is because money, comfort, and convenience will never make us happy, but overcoming challenges and being able to conquer our own problems will add to a sense of fulfillment in our lives. But I think that there are also more rational reasons for leaning towards frugality instead of towards having the ability to pay everyone to do all of the things that you don't want to do. For one, the less money that you need in order to meet your basic needs, the earlier you are able to become financially free, because the amount of money that you have to save in order to live off the interest will be significantly smaller. Also, the more you are able to do things on your own, the more likely you are to be able to endure a great financial collapse, which is a possibility fresh on the minds of almost every American right now. For me, the most important reason for aiming towards the life of frugality is my desire to be free. I don't want to be stuck in the job I'm in just because I need the money. I want the freedom to pursue the work that I choose. I want the peace of mind to know that if LeAnn or I lose our jobs that we have plenty of time to recover and find something else.
What do you want? Are you more interested in comfort and convenience, or, like me, do you wish to be free?
In reality, if we had no desire for comfort or convenience, financial freedom could easily be attained in under 10 years. One could easily live on $7,000/yr and have all of their needs met. In reality, if you were extreme enough, you could live for free by the sweat of your own brow. At the other end of the spectrum, we have those that are so focused on their careers and earning money that they are able to outsource everything and put all of their effort into learning how to increase their income. This gives them the ability to hire personal trainers, even have people clean and cook for them. Both of these examples are extremes that most of us will not relate to and could not see ourselves doing.
But which method is better for us? Why not work our tails off so that we can live the ultimate life of comfort and convenience? I obviously am partial to the first scenario. The most obvious reason is because money, comfort, and convenience will never make us happy, but overcoming challenges and being able to conquer our own problems will add to a sense of fulfillment in our lives. But I think that there are also more rational reasons for leaning towards frugality instead of towards having the ability to pay everyone to do all of the things that you don't want to do. For one, the less money that you need in order to meet your basic needs, the earlier you are able to become financially free, because the amount of money that you have to save in order to live off the interest will be significantly smaller. Also, the more you are able to do things on your own, the more likely you are to be able to endure a great financial collapse, which is a possibility fresh on the minds of almost every American right now. For me, the most important reason for aiming towards the life of frugality is my desire to be free. I don't want to be stuck in the job I'm in just because I need the money. I want the freedom to pursue the work that I choose. I want the peace of mind to know that if LeAnn or I lose our jobs that we have plenty of time to recover and find something else.
What do you want? Are you more interested in comfort and convenience, or, like me, do you wish to be free?